Everyone says you're great but you don't believe it

For high achieving professionals who question their performance with overthinking, stress and second guessing.

You. Without the noise

No overthinking. No second-guessing. No recovery time. Just you, fully present.
Finally believe the praises that people already say about you.

I combine brain science, cognitive hypnotherapy, and performance coaching to help high-performers in London and worldwide break patterns that no amount of willpower and grind has shifted.

hours of client work, grounded in lived experience

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THE UNBECOMING METHOD™

Why everything else you've tried hasn't worked

95% of behavior stems from our unconscious mind. The Unbecoming Method works there.

This work goes beyond tools and techniques. It changes how your unconscious mind responds so self-doubt, impostor syndrome and self sabotage no longer run the show.

FiRST

Unlearn

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The story you’ve been telling yourself for the past 30 years isn’t true. But how do you change the story? That’s where step one, Unlearn, comes into play.

THEN

Unlock

02

Once we’ve removed the story from your past, it frees up your mind to create a new story. One that feels more like you.

LAST

Unleash

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After we go to the source, behavior just follows, that means results feel effortless and substainable.

Work With Me

You’ve done the hard work. Now it’s time for the right work.

One to One Deep Transformation

Tailored programmes for high achieving professionals who question their
performance with overthinking, stress and
second guessing.

If this is you,

No coping strategies. No willpower. Permanent change at the root

CASE STUDIES

Real people. Real shifts. In their own words

From Self-sabotage to Calm Confidence.

How Abbie rebuilt trust in herself and transformed her work and relationship.

Through our work, she learned to quiet the noise, trust herself again, and stop taking everything personally. The shift has been life-changing.

If the thoughts come, I swipe them off. I do everything in a more chill way now, less pressure, more ease. I have so much more space in my head for the important things.

From Overdrive to Inner-ease

Sandrine is a senior HR leader working in a complex, high-pressure environment.
Capable and successful on the outside, but internally stuck in overdrive.

Her mind was always on. Even when things were going well, there was little sense of ease.

I feel absolutely stable in my capacity to handle things now. Even when things are difficult, I don’t doubt myself anymore.

From Over-Control to Effortless Flow

Kate is a successful entrepreneur, health coach, and mother of two with a thriving business and a large online presence (450k+ followers). Highly driven, but internally exhausted, pressured, and afraid to slow down. When we met, her identity was tightly tied to performance. She wanted to lead with clarity, not force.

As a business owner, I wanted to invest in myself. I wanted to get to know myself better, understand parts of me that hold me back and really strive to become the best version of myself – so that I can be the best leader and coach that I can be. This is exactly what Charlotte has helped me to do .

From constant self-doubt to confidence and grounding.

F is an HR Director with a desire to make a real difference in her company, on the outside, she was visible, capable, and holding a lot of responsibility. Inside, her nervous system was constantly on high alert, and even though she understood her anxiety cognitively, she still felt hijacked in the moment and exhausted from pushing through.

My social anxiety is about 90 percent gone and I feel much more grounded in myself, it’s day and night compared to when we started this work. I am so excited for what’s coming this year.

FREE RESOURCE

The Self-Sabotage.Solution

A 17-minute recording that gives you the one insight that makes the pattern lose its grip. No willpower required.

Common Questions

What is cognitive hypnotherapy for high performers?

Cognitive hypnotherapy combines neuroscience and psychology to work directly on the unconscious patterns driving overthinking, self-doubt and self-sabotage. Unlike traditional therapy or mindset coaching, it doesn’t work on the surface, it goes to the source of the pattern and changes it there. I work with senior leaders, entrepreneurs and high performers who are accomplished on the outside but second-guess, overthink and spiral on the inside

How is The Unbecoming Method different from coaching or therapy?

Most coaching and therapy works on the symptom, managing thoughts, building habits, reframing beliefs. The Unbecoming Method works at the root, the unconscious patterns that drive those symptoms in the first place. It’s not about adding more tools to manage. It’s a direct intervention on what’s actually running you.

How many sessions does it take to see results?

Most clients experience a significant shift within the first few sessions. The One to One Deep Transformation programme is tailored to each person, but because we work at the root rather than the surface, results tend to be faster and more permanent than clients expect.

Do I need to be in crisis to work with you?

No, and most of my clients aren’t. They’re high performers who are functioning well externally but exhausted by their own internal noise. You don’t have to hit rock bottom to get here. That’s exactly why I created this work.

Do you work with clients outside London?

Yes, I work with clients across the UK and internationally via video. Location is no barrier.

Ready to start believing what other people already think of you?

Let’s talk about how you can grow without burning out—book your strategy call today.